Love and Libido
Love and Libido
Q&A: Does His Fantasy Mean He Doesn’t Love Me?

I am so excited about today’s episode because it is our first ever live Q&A! I finally had a subscriber brave enough to schedule some time with me so that we could dive more deeply into her concern. Her longtime boyfriend has a sexual fantasy that is making them question if their relationship is really on solid ground. The worst part is, that she feels partly responsible for the fantasy he’s stuck on. Have you ever questioned the meaning of your sexual fantasies? Has your partner ever reacted negatively when you expressed a fantasy or desire? Then you need to tune into today’s episode!

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