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Create connection. Cultivate Passion.

Dr. Emily Jamea is an award-winning sex and relationship therapist, a USA Today best selling author, a sought-after keynote speaker, and frequent media contributor.

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KEKE PALMER, AMERICAN ACTRESS & SINGER

“Dr. Emily gives us a new way of thinking about how to cultivate great sex. She breaks down the latest science in a way that is accessible and meaningful as well as authentic and relatable. She teaches us how personal curiosity and insight weave together with vulnerability and intimacy in a way that ignites sexual passion.”

IAN KERNER, PHD LMFT, NY TIMES BEST-SELLING AUTHOR OF SHE COMES FIRST

“Dr. Emily has a thoughtful, clinically assured voice that is sure to appeal to readers far and wide. She makes difficult issues simple and accessible via her central tenet that expressing our authentic sexual selves is not about venturing into the unknown but rather searching within ourselves and tapping into our innate, albeit uncultivated, sexual potential. Everything we need to seize the sexual moment is already within us, waiting to be actualized, and Emily guides us on this journey with care and curiosity.”

STEPHEN SNYDER, MD, AUTHOR OF THE WINNER OF THE NAUTILUS GOLD BOOK AWARD FOR RELATIONSHIPS AND COMMUNICATION LOVE WORTH MAKING

“We sex therapists have always warned couples against setting too many goals in bed. Anatomy of Desire sets this conventional wisdom on its head, encouraging couples instead to set very high goals, and in a surprising turn actually demonstrates how to achieve them. Dr. Emily is a sex therapist and former classical dancer, with a dancer’s interest in how to balance discipline with spontaneity to achieve flow. She walks you carefully through the emotional steps that underlie all great sex and offers precise instructions for doing the work needed to make it all ultimately appear effortless. Bravo!”

PAUL JOANNIDES, PSY.D., AUTHOR OF THE GUIDE TO GETTING IT ON AND HOST OF THE “CRUSH IT IN BED PODCAST”

"If you care about your partner and are looking for ways to restart your sex life, I don’t know of a more outstanding resource than Anatomy of Desire. I highly recommend this book to any couple whose sex life is lacking the passion and excitement it once had. It is well written, easy to relate to, and most important of all–it provides the tools that couples need who still love each other and want to make sex feel awesome again."

JUSTIN LEHMILLER, PHD, AUTHOR OF TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT AND HOST OF THE SEX AND PSYCHOLOGY PODCAST

“Dr. Emily is a master of sexual communication. She seamlessly weaves together scientific data and clinical expertise in an elegant yet accessible way and provides readers with practical tips and takeaways to level-up their intimate lives.”

PATTI BRITTON, PH.D, CLINICAL SEXOLOGIST, KNOWN AS THE "MOTHER OF SEX COACHING," CO-FOUNDER OF SEXCOACHU.COM, AND A GLOBALLY RECOGNIZED LEADER IN SEXUAL WELLNESS

"I was delighted to see that Dr. Emily has broken new ground with her integration of 'flow' science and sexual treatment modalities. Emily possesses a sharp mind, creative ability, warmth, and clinical expertise to move the client or student toward fulfillment of their erotic and sexual wellness potential. She exudes intellect, heart, and compassion with an upbeat flair.”

TAMMY NELSON, PHD, AUTHOR OF GETTING THE SEX YOU WANT

"Dr. Emily's new book lets readers know that any couple can have an optimal sexual relationship . . . Everyone reading this book will find hope for their long-term erotic connection."

BARRY MCCARTHY, PHD, AUTHOR OF REKINDLING DESIRE

“Dr. Emily is a new, unique voice in the sexology field. Her book moves away from the popular advice about spicing up your sex life and presents a fresh perspective on how to maintain eroticism in long-term relationships. She presents a set of five scientifically validated, personally relevant qualities that are accessible to all readers. Everyone will walk away from this book with clarity and purpose about how to cultivate higher levels of sexual satisfaction and enduring intimacy in their relationships.”

LAURIE MINTZ, PH.D., AUTHOR OF A TIRED WOMAN’S GUIDE TO PASSIONATE SEX AND BECOMING CLITERATE

"As a sex therapist, I plan to recommend this book to all my clients struggling with a sex life that feels stalled or lacking. With a knowledgeable and compassionate voice, Dr. Emily Jamea goes beyond the usual recommendations and instead, teaches readers to cultivate connection, passion, and intimacy. Ripe with case examples and exercises, readers will find sure-fire ways to regain their spark and keep it."

WENDY MALTZ, LCSW, DST, AUTHOR OF THE SEXUAL HEALING JOURNEY AND THE PORN TRAP

"Anatomy of Desire is a highly-useful book that provides lots of ideas for enhancing and deepening sexual experience. Emily Jamea deftly weaves together clinical advice and stories, with contemporary research, theory, and self-help exercises, to give readers a well-informed resource for personal growth and sexual fulfillment."

PUBLISHER'S WEEKLY

"[A] solid debut guide to keeping intimacy alive in long-term relationships... Jamea’s robust research, nonjudgemental approach, and enthusiasm for the topic makes this a worthwhile guide. Couples looking to reignite their spark will want to check it out."

Anatomy of Desire:
5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy

As a seasoned sex and relationship therapist, Dr. Emily Jamea has developed a unique approach for maximizing sexual desire and pleasure. Instant USA Today Best-Selling book, ANATOMY OF DESIRE identifies five secrets―sensuality, curiosity, adaptability, vulnerability, and attunement―that help transform sex from sub-par to extraordinary.

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Hi! My name is
Dr. Emily Jamea

It is my belief that the healthier we are as individuals, the more deeply we connect in our relationships, and the greater sense of aliveness we bring to our erotic encounters. Here you’ll find all the resources you need to start your journey.

BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

Create connection. Cultivate passion.

This phrase captures the heart of my work as a therapist, researcher, and author. I believe that deep, lasting intimacy isn’t something we stumble into; it’s something we actively nurture with intention and purpose. In my clinical practice and research, I’ve found that connection is the foundation upon which passion thrives - connection to ourselves, others, and the world around us. My mission is to help people move beyond surface-level advice and into a deeper understanding of what truly fuels intimacy. When we create connection, we don’t just reignite passion, we transform it.

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Dr. Emily Jamea and her work have been featured in major news outlets and publications during her many years as a therapist.

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When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women
When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women

I sat across from Jeremy and his wife, Sonia, in their first session with me. Sonia was fuming. Jeremy fidgeted,...

VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love
VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love

When something is “trending,” we often believe it’s for good reason. I mean, why else would it gain so much...

The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted
The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted

Think only men suffer performance anxiety, your libido is set in stone or porn destroys intimacy? Experts debunk the most...

When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women
When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women

I sat across from Jeremy and his wife, Sonia, in their first session with me. Sonia was fuming. Jeremy fidgeted,...

VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love
VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love

When something is “trending,” we often believe it’s for good reason. I mean, why else would it gain so much...

The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted
The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted

Think only men suffer performance anxiety, your libido is set in stone or porn destroys intimacy? Experts debunk the most...

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Justin Lehmiller, PhD, author of "Tell Me What You Want"

"Dr. Emily is a master of sexual communication. She seamlessly weaves together scientific data and clinical expertise in an elegant yet accessible way and provides readers with practical tips and takeaways to level up their intimate lives."
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Patti Britton, PhD, author of "The Art of Sex Coaching"

"Dr. Emily has broken new ground with her integration of 'flow' science and sexual teachings. Dr. Emily possesses a sharp mind, creative ability, warmth, and clinical expertise to move the client or student towards fulfillment of their erotic and sexual wellness potential. She exudes intellect, heart, and compassion with an upbeat flair."
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Tammy Nelson, PhD, author of "Getting the Sex You Want"

“Dr. Emily’s new book lets readers know that any couple can have an optimal sexual relationship. Everyone reading this book will find hope for their long-term erotic connection.”
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Barry McCarthy, PhD, coauthor of "Rekindling Desire"

“Dr. Emily is a new, unique voice in the sexology field. Her book moves away from the popular advice about spicing up your sex life and presents a fresh perspective on how to maintain eroticism in long-term relationships. Everyone will walk away from this book with clarity and purpose about how to cultivate higher levels of sexual satisfaction and enduring intimacy in their relationships.”
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Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST, author of "The Sexual Healing Journey"

“Dr. Emily Jamea deftly weaves together clinical advice and stories with contemporary research, theory, and self-help exercises to give readers a well-informed resource for personal growth and sexual fulfillment."
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Ian Kerner, PhD LMFT, NY Times best-selling author of "She Comes First"

"Dr. Emily Jamea makes difficult issues simple and accessible via her central tenet that expressing our authentic sexual selves is not about venturing into the unknown but rather searching within ourselves and tapping into our innate, albeit uncultivated, sexual potential. Dr. Emily guides us on this journey with care and curiosity”
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PUBLISHER'S WEEKLY

"[A] solid debut guide to keeping intimacy alive in long-term relationships... Jamea’s robust research, nonjudgemental approach, and enthusiasm for the topic makes this a worthwhile guide. Couples looking to reignite their spark will want to check it out."
testimonial

Paul Joannides, Psy.D., author of "The Guide To Getting It On" & host of the “Crush It In Bed" Podcast

"If you care about your partner and are looking for ways to restart your sex life, I don’t know of a more outstanding resource than Anatomy of Desire. I highly recommend this book to any couple whose sex life is lacking the passion and excitement it once had. It is well written, easy to relate to, and most important of all–it provides the tools that couples need who still love each other and want to make sex feel awesome again."

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