Is Mental Health Messing with Your Sexual Mojo?
Is Mental Health Messing with Your Sexual Mojo?

If you’re in midlife, you might be wondering why you’ve gone from “Let’s get it on” to “Please get off me.” And you wouldn’t be alone. Many women assume changes in libido in their late 30s, 40s or 50s are purely hormonal. But, while hormones certainly play a role, they’re just one of many potential pieces to the puzzle...

Prenups: The Emotional Fine Print
Prenups: The Emotional Fine Print

Theoretically, they make sense. Economics is no longer the primary driver for marriage—love is. Ideologically (and given the reality of divorce rates) prenups ensure finances stay in order so that we can focus on love. It sounds romantic in a sense. And yet, in my clinical experience, that framing is incomplete... read more

How Is AI Affecting Sex and Relationships?
How Is AI Affecting Sex and Relationships?

And that’s when I saw his chat. I know it was wrong to scroll back through the conversation, but it was right there, and I couldn’t help myself. I found pages and pages of text.

Healthy Women - The Sex Recession
Healthy Women - The Sex Recession

We are experiencing a global sex recession. My latest column for HealthyWomen.org outlines the science and shares my insights. 

Award-Winning Column
Award-Winning Column

I am pleased to announce that my HealthyWomen.org column on "Alcohol and Sex" won the Silver Medal for the 2025 Digital Health Awards! Read the full column HERE and check out the award HERE

Healthy Women - How to Share a Sexual Fantasy
Healthy Women - How to Share a Sexual Fantasy

When Camilla first brought up the topic of sexual fantasies in therapy, she laughed nervously. “I have this one recurring...

When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women
When is Porn a Problem - Healthy Women

I sat across from Jeremy and his wife, Sonia, in their first session with me. Sonia was fuming. Jeremy fidgeted,...

VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love
VICE: Those Stupid Dating Trends Are Ruining Your Chance at Love

When something is “trending,” we often believe it’s for good reason. I mean, why else would it gain so much...

The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted
The Guardian: Bigger is always better – and nine other sex myths busted

Think only men suffer performance anxiety, your libido is set in stone or porn destroys intimacy? Experts debunk the most...