When Camilla first brought up the topic of sexual fantasies in therapy, she laughed nervously. “I have this one recurring fantasy,” she said, “but I could never tell my husband. He’d think I’m weird.”
Like many people, Camilla assumed that revealing her fantasy might threaten her relationship. She worried that it might be taken as a sign something was missing or worse, that it would change the way her partner saw her.
“Maybe, maybe not,” I replied with a smile. “Large scale studies report that over 95% of people report having fantasies and yet, the perception and understanding of them is still shrouded in misconception. Fantasies are far less about dissatisfaction and far more about imagination.”
Camilla took a deep breath and then revealed her fantasy. “I sometimes imagine... CLICK TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE
