I once worked with a couple — Nolan and Jenna — who came to me after Nolan had been treated for prostate cancer. Before cancer, they'd had a satisfying sex life, but everything felt different after treatment. Despite being cancer-free, he struggled to get and maintain an erection and simply didn't experience desire for sex the way he had before.
Jenna assumed he wasn't initiating because he was embarrassed about his erections. But it was more than that for him. He still loved her and found her attractive, but the internal sexual “pull” he'd always taken for granted just wasn't there in the same way. Click HERE to read more.