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Love & Libido Podcast

Dr. Emily Jamea, a leading expert on sex and relationships, takes listeners on a journey into the complexities of love, libido, and everything in between. Her podcast educates and inspires through interviews with other experts both in the United States and around the world.

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Fat Sexuality – Busting Myths and Erasing Stigma

Fat is not a dirty word. It’s not a bad word. And it shouldn’t have negative connotations. But unfortunately, it still does. We live in a society that celebrates thin bodies and judges fat ones. But the fact is, everyone, regardless of their body type, is entitled to experience love, connection, and great sex. On […]

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Love and Libido – Trauma & Sex

Are you someone whose past sexual trauma is preventing you from enjoying sex at your full capacity? Do you even know what your full capacity is or have you like so many people accepted mediocre sex as your norm? Today, we’re going to talk about how reclaiming, reconnecting, and rediscovering vital parts of yourself can […]

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Sexually In-Sync: New Research on Erotic Attunement

Do you long for a sense of effortlessness, harmony, and synchronicity when you make love to your partner? Do you want to experience a sense of unity and surrender to the moment? Then you need to listen to today’s episode. The feelings I just described can only happen when you and your partner are highly attuned. Being attuned means that your bodies sync up with each other. Your breathing and heart rates move in unison, which – the latest research shows – massively amplifies sexual pleasure and satisfaction. I am fortunate to be joined by sexual attunement expert, Dr. Bridget...

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The Impact of Social Media on Relationships

Social media has completely changed the landscape of relationships. It gives couples a lot of gray area to consider when thinking about what constitutes as cheating or even little boundary violations. How does social media affect relationships? Can it offer any benefit? How do you talk to your partner about boundaries regarding social media use? We are going to chat about all of that and more in today’s episode. I’m joined by my friend and colleague, Dr. Rachel Needle. Dr. Needle is a Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist in private practice as well as an Adjunct Professor of Psychology at...

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Six Ingredients for Lasting Love

Have you ever wondered what the secrets are to long-term love and attraction? Well, we have some interesting new research that sheds light on what the happiest couples already know. Get your pen and paper ready because whether you’re dating or partnered, you’re about to learn the key ingredients for lasting intimacy. I’m joined once again by Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, who conducted the research I mentioned and compiled it for us in her new book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sara is a Social Psychologist who specializes in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural fluency. Her commitment...

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Fat Sexuality - Busting Myths and Erasing Stigma

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Fat Sexuality - Busting Myths and Erasing Stigma
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Fat is not a dirty word. It’s not a bad word. And it shouldn’t have negative connotations. But unfortunately, it still does. We live in a society that celebrates thin bodies and judges fat ones. But the fact is, everyone, regardless of their body type, is entitled to experience love, connection, and great sex. On […]

Love and Libido - Trauma & Sex

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Love and Libido - Trauma & Sex
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Are you someone whose past sexual trauma is preventing you from enjoying sex at your full capacity? Do you even know what your full capacity is or have you like so many people accepted mediocre sex as your norm? Today, we’re going to talk about how reclaiming, reconnecting, and rediscovering vital parts of yourself can […]

Sexually In-Sync: New Research on Erotic Attunement

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Sexually In-Sync: New Research on Erotic Attunement
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Do you long for a sense of effortlessness, harmony, and synchronicity when you make love to your partner? Do you want to experience a sense of unity and surrender to the moment? Then you need to listen to today’s episode. The feelings I just described can only happen when you and your partner are highly attuned. Being attuned means that your bodies sync up with each other. Your breathing and heart rates move in unison, which – the latest research shows – massively amplifies sexual pleasure and satisfaction. I am fortunate to be joined by sexual attunement expert, Dr. Bridget Freihart.Bridget is a Ph.D. candidate in clinical psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She is currently completing her training as a Clinical Fellow at Harvard Medical School. Her research, which focuses on the role of relationships in sexual and reproductive health, has been featured in a range of leading medical journals. In addition to her work as a scientist, Bridget specializes in the delivery of cutting-edge interventions designed to optimize emotional and sexual health.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.Exciting news! You can now pre-order my book, "Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion," from your favorite book retailers. Don't miss out on securing your copy early!And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

The Impact of Social Media on Relationships

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The Impact of Social Media on Relationships
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Social media has completely changed the landscape of relationships. It gives couples a lot of gray area to consider when thinking about what constitutes as cheating or even little boundary violations. How does social media affect relationships? Can it offer any benefit? How do you talk to your partner about boundaries regarding social media use? We are going to chat about all of that and more in today’s episode. I’m joined by my friend and colleague, Dr. Rachel Needle. Dr. Needle is a Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist in private practice as well as an Adjunct Professor of Psychology at Nova Southeastern University. She is the founder and CEO of the Advanced Mental Health Training Institute and Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes which provides continuing education to Mental Health and Medical professionals and Sex Therapists around the world. She has been featured in a number of popular magazines such as Glamour and Cosmopolitan.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.Exciting news! You can now pre-order my book, "Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion," from your favorite book retailers. Don't miss out on securing your copy early!And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Six Ingredients for Lasting Love

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Six Ingredients for Lasting Love
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Have you ever wondered what the secrets are to long-term love and attraction? Well, we have some interesting new research that sheds light on what the happiest couples already know. Get your pen and paper ready because whether you’re dating or partnered, you’re about to learn the key ingredients for lasting intimacy. I’m joined once again by Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, who conducted the research I mentioned and compiled it for us in her new book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sara is a Social Psychologist who specializes in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural fluency. Her commitment to the growth of our human community manifests itself through her multi-dimensional efforts as a thinking partner, educator, consultant, author, keynote speaker, and media commentator.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Adult Sex Ed: What You Need to Know

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Adult Sex Ed: What You Need to Know
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If you’re like most folks, you probably think that sex is something that comes naturally. Who needs a guidebook for something we are hardwired to do, right? Wrong! The truth is, good lovers know and accept that lifelong learning is an essential component of great sex, which is the topic of today’s episode. I had the pleasure of sitting down with Mariah Freya, a sex coach and the co-founder of Beducated, an online platform for sex education, where she offers a vast library of resources for inclusive, comprehensive, medically accurate, and pleasure-focused sex education for adults.In her early 20s, Mariah Freya faced the trauma of multiple sexual assaults. This challenging period marked by low libido and strained relationships became a turning point for her. Driven by her background as a social worker and the transformative experience she gained from therapy and sex-positive workshops, Mariah was inspired to become a sex coach.Recognizing an evident gap in inclusive and accessible adult sex education, she, along with her partner Philipp Steinweber, launched Beducated, an online platform offering affordable and digestible teachings.Dedicated to "bed-ucating" the world, Mariah stands as a beacon of resilience, advocating the belief that everyone, regardless of their life stage, deserves comprehensive, pleasure-based sex education.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

What Your Personality Type Says about Your Sexuality

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What Your Personality Type Says about Your Sexuality
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What does your personality type say about your sexual and relationship tendencies? The Enneagram has become an increasingly popular personality assessment and can tell us so much about our romantic and sexual nature. What does it mean if you score high on Number 2, which is a Helper, but low on Number 5, which is the Investigator? We’re going to dive into each of the 9 types with sex and personality expert, Lyndsey Fraser. I took the personality assessment myself and Lyndsey shared some interesting insight about what it might say about my sexuality. I’m getting vulnerable today!Lyndsey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and an International Enneagram Association (IEA) Accredited Enneagram Professional. She has presented on the intersection of the Enneagram, relationships, and sexuality in various U.S. and international forums.Lyndsey also has had a small private practice for the last twelve years in South Minneapolis where she specializes in relationships and sexuality utilizing the Enneagram.You can find Lyndsey on Instagram @lyndseyfraserlmft.The Nine Enneagram Type Descriptions1 THE REFORMER The Rational, Idealistic Type: Principled, Purposeful, Self-Controlled, and Perfectionistic2 THE HELPER The Caring, Interpersonal Type: Demonstrative, Generous, People-Pleasing, and Possessive3 THE ACHIEVER The Success-Oriented, Pragmatic Type: Adaptive, Excelling, Driven, and Image-Conscious4 THE INDIVIDUALIST The Sensitive, Withdrawn Type: Expressive, Dramatic, Self-Absorbed, and Temperamental5 THE INVESTIGATOR The Intense, Cerebral Type: Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated6 THE LOYALIST The Committed, Security-Oriented Type: Engaging, Responsible, Anxious, and Suspicious7 THE ENTHUSIAST The Busy, Fun-Loving Type: Spontaneous, Versatile, Distractible, and Scattered8 THE CHALLENGER The Powerful, Dominating Type: Self-Confident, Decisive, Willful, and Confrontational9 THE PEACEMAKER The Easygoing, Self-Effacing Type: Receptive, Reassuring, Agreeable, and ComplacentIf you are interested in taking the test yourself, visit https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonym

When Sex Hurts

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When Sex Hurts
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Sex shouldn’t hurt unless you want it to, but that’s not the case for a lot of people. The fact is, 1 in 4 individuals, yeah 25% of people, experience some kind of pain that affects the quality of their sex. As we’ll discuss on today’s show, pain can be caused by several factors, which is why I’ve called in sexual pain expert and host of the Sluts and Scholars Podcast, Nicoletta Heidegger.Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California. She specializes in trauma-informed sex therapy for diverse populations and is also an Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP).  She provides coaching, consulting, education, and retreats to folks around the world.When not seeing clients, Nicoletta creates weekly content via her hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex-positive, shame-free, educational podcast for professionals who like pleasure. Nicoletta contributes regularly to a variety of columns, podcasts, classrooms, and blogs about sex, relationships, and mental health.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Motherhood's Impact on Emotional and Physical Intimacy

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Motherhood's Impact on Emotional and Physical Intimacy
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Are you a mother or partner of a mother who feels like your relationship has gone downhill since kids entered the scene? You love your partner and you love your kids, but you feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way. I've said it before and I’ll say it again, our sexuality is inextricably linked to our individuality. Without a strong sense of self, your relationship and sex life are going to suffer. So, how can we love our kids without losing ourselves and still find time for love and romance in the mix? That’s the topic of today’s episode.Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who has a Ph.D. in psychology and is a highly sought-after relationship expert, knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, New York Times, Women’s Health Magazine, MOPS International, Loveology, and Flow, which is the number one app in Health and Fitness. Her book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, is available now. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Uncompromising Intimacy - How to Have It All

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Uncompromising Intimacy - How to Have It All
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In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, an intimate marriage expert specializing in showing couples how to build beautiful, long-lasting passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy” and host of The Institute of Marriage Podcast.A wife of 26 years and mother of 4, Alexandra believes the key to passion and fulfillment, intimacy and success isn’t compromise –it’s being unwilling to compromise -because when both people feel free to be themselves and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

How Having Embodied Sex Can Amplify Pleasure

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How Having Embodied Sex Can Amplify Pleasure
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Do you or your partner struggle to stay focused, present, and connected to your body during sex? Do you find yourself easily distracted? Well, you're not alone. This is one of the most common complaints I get from my clients. Today, I'm joined by therapist Tara Galeano who is going to chat with us about ways to stay more embodied during sex so that you can amplify your pleasure.Author Tara Galeano is a certified sex therapist and sexual empowerment coach who has worked with women and couples for over two decades to get their sexy back. She knows that there is pleasure in the body and everyone can access it. In her book ‘Rediscovering My Body’, Tara teaches us how to show up for our desires by being more fully embodied.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Battle of the Sexes

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Battle of the Sexes
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Is it true that women are from Venus and men are from Mars? Are men and women more alike or more different? Why do we seem to have totally different ways of communicating with one another, and how can we work together to build happier and healthier relationships?Dr. Ricky Arenson is a dual-trained Endocrinologist and Geriatrician who lives in Perth, Western Australia, with his wife of twenty years and their four children. As the head of a major hospital, working with patients who have reached 100 years of age, Ricky asked them what the secret to their longevity was… surprisingly it wasn’t eating acai berries and doing yoga… it was having long-term positive relationships.His outrageously funny yet serious book ‘Women Are Superior to Men’ explores why so many couples have the same arguments about how often to have sex, how men don’t notice or pick up the mess they leave lying around, and how men communicate in grunts or jokes when their wives are looking for a serious conversation. It’s an easy guide to creating and maintaining a magical relationship filled with love, joy, and better (and more frequent) sex.Ricky has helped over 30,000 patients, holds numerous medical awards, and was awarded a lifetime Outstanding Service Award by Royal Perth Hospital. He has also founded several businesses, owns a private medical practice, and is a stand-up comedian.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

How to Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns and Manifest the Right One

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How to Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns and Manifest the Right One
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Have you recently ended a relationship and feel lost on how to begin anew? Have you ever wondered why you seem to be attracting people who frankly, aren’t compatible or healthy for you? Does “the one” really exist, and if so, how the heck are we supposed to find them? My guest, Allison Jayne Ewing […]

Flirting 101

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Flirting 101
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Have you ever wondered how to flirt? What kind of flirting is most likely to lead to a hook-up versus a date versus a rejection? How can you be sure that the way you flirt doesn’t come across as creepy or is viewed as harassment, especially in the post #MeToo era? That was the question from a recent Love and Libido Subscriber. As I was preparing my response, I came across the research of Dr. Jeffrey Hall who has studied you guessed it…. flirting. I decided to reach out to him to answer this important question because I think it’s so poignant. Dr. Hall discovered there are five distinct styles of flirting and each one sends a unique message. We are going to talk all about that and more on today’s episode.Jeffrey A. Hall is a Professor of Communication Studies, Associate Chair, and Director of the Relationships and Technology Lab at The University of Kansas. He was awarded the Early Career Award from the Interpersonal Communication Division of the National Communication Association in 2015. He’s done extensive research on flirting and communication through technology. His award-winning book Relating Through Technology was published by Cambridge University Press in 2020. He has written for the Wall Street Journal and has been interviewed by the New York Times,NPR, Washington Post, Financial Times, and more. and has appeared on the Steve Harvey Show and It’s Personal with Amy Hoggart.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

The Truth about Testosterone

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The Truth about Testosterone
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Do you or your partner suffer from erectile dysfunction? Are you considering treatment options like testosterone or injects? Maybe you’re struggling with premature or delayed ejaculation and want to know what might help. That’s the topic of today’s episode. I am so thrilled to welcome back renowned urologist, Dr. Jonathan Clavell.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q&A Quickie: How Often Should You Have Sex Per Week?

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Q&A Quickie: How Often Should You Have Sex Per Week?
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Have you ever wondered how often most people have sex per month? What about how to start a threesome? Well, we are going to tackle that and more in today’s Q&A episode. You guys submit such great questions, and I want to thank you so much for being so vulnerable. It’s not always easy to put this stuff out there. We’ve got a nice variety today. In addition to the “how often should I be having sex question” and “how to start a threesome question,” I’m also going to answer one new father’s question about how to support his wife in rediscovering her libido since having a baby 6 months ago.16:41 Question 2 - What is a healthy number of times to have sex per month? 26:06 Question 3 - What is the best way to start a threesome?If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

How to Boost Your Sexual Confidence and Enhance Pleasure

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How to Boost Your Sexual Confidence and Enhance Pleasure
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People are so focused on increasing their desire for sex that they forget one simple fact… you’re only going to desire sex if you’re having good sex! So what can we do to improve sexual satisfaction? Today I’m joined by a sexpert who conducted a huge research study that examines just that. We are going to chat about what she discovered to be the most important predictors of sexual satisfaction. Get your pen and paper ready, because you’re going to want to take notes! Dr. Tara is a sex and relationship expert, award-winning researcher, and professor of sexual communication. She has her Ph.D. in human communication and received her tenure at the age of 33, now working as a professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton.Additionally, she is a sexual communication and relationship coach at LuvBites and host of the Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast, which focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration.Her expertise has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and Insider, among others. Her 2019 TEDx Talk entitled Become Sexually Powerful highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant from Thailand to a confident sexpert. I am so thrilled to have her on the show today!If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q&A Quickie: Can You Desire Sex Too Much or Too Little?

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Q&A Quickie: Can You Desire Sex Too Much or Too Little?
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I am happy to report that Q&A episodes are back! It’s been a while since I’ve recorded one, but you guys have been sending in such great questions I just had to get some of them answered and we’ve got some good ones today. I am going to help a guy who is feeling stuck about how to help his wife enjoy sex more, then I have two more questions about desire but on opposite ends. One person worries they don’t desire sex enough while the other worries he desires sex too much. So, without further ado, let’s dive in!If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Exciting Treatment Options for Erectile Dysfunction

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Exciting Treatment Options for Erectile Dysfunction
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If you are a penis owner or a partner of a penis owner, you need to listen to today’s episode. Erectile dysfunction can affect even the most confident men. Unfortunately, the penis does not have an on/off switch. Anything from stress, health issues, relationship conflict, or having too much to drink can cause problems. Chances are, most of my male listeners have been there at some point in their lives. But what do you do when the anxiety becomes so great that your erectile function totally goes out the window? If therapy doesn’t help, what medical interventions are available? Could a penile implant be right for you? That’s the topic of today’s episode.Today, I am joined by Dr. Jonathan Clavell, a board-certified urologist practicing in downtown Houston. He is fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and an Adjunct Assistant Professor in Surgery for the University of Texas in Houston – Division of Urology. You can learn more about him by visiting his website or Instagram.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or using code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Rediscovering Pleasure after Trauma

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Rediscovering Pleasure after Trauma
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 Are you someone whose past sexual trauma is preventing you from enjoying sex at your full capacity? Do you even know what your full capacity is or have you like so many people accepted mediocre sex as your norm? Today, we're going to talk about how reclaiming, reconnecting, and rediscovering vital parts of yourself can propel you out of trauma and into sexual pleasure.Kim Coffin is a certified Trauma Informed, Somatic (body-based) Empowerment & Sexuality Coach, Bestselling Author & Teacher, a graduate of Layla Martin’s Institute of Integrated Tantric Sexuality, and founder of Get Your Sexy Back.She specializes in Sexuality, Tantric Sex and Relationship Transformation giving you the tools to unleash your sexual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, and intimacy with yourself - and in your relationships!By creating deep trust and safety in your body and mind, Kim will show you how to RECONNECT to your body, ACTIVATE your turn-on, HEAL heartbreak & shame, and RECLAIM your true SEXY self so that you can fully step into your UNAPOLOGETIC POWER! A gift for the love & libido listeners: Free - 8 Tools to Activate Your Turn-On + Practice + Free Month to my Sacred Pleasure Membership - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2dYou can get more from Kim here:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/Get Your Sexy Back Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: Love without Lust

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Q&A Quickie: Love without Lust
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We have two excellent questions to discuss on today’s episode. The first comes from a stroke survivor who is feeling frustrated and sad that her partner is uninterested in sex since her stroke despite her incredible recovery. I love this question because there are so many great lessons on adaptability that I’m going to be chatting about. Whether you have a chronic illness or not, adaptability is one of the most important sexual skills, so stay tuned. Then we’ll turn our attention to a woman who finds it impossible to reach climax when she has sex with her boyfriend. Listen to hear what’s going on and my advice on what she should do.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: My Boring Relationship

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Q&A Quickie: My Boring Relationship
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We have two great questions we're going to tackle in today's episode. The first is a recorded submission from a woman who's feeling a little uninspired and bored in her relationship. She thinks her boyfriend is a wonderful person but is struggling because he no longer motivates or excites her. Our second question comes from someone who is struggling to match her partner's high libido. Desire discrepancy issues are so common, and I'm going to chat all about it on today's show.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Relationship, Career, Kids…and Hot Sex? How?!

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Relationship, Career, Kids…and Hot Sex? How?!
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If you’re like most folks you want it all. But it can be challenging to balance your personal ambition with your family all while maintaining a juicy sex life. Today’s guest, Dr. Joli Hamilton has the answers. Drawing from her entrepreneurial spirit and experience raising seven kids while maintaining a passionate relationship, Joli talks about how to design your relationship. We chat about what it means to truly anchor – to your partner, to your family, and to your intimate time together. “When you see the connection you foster with your partner as an investment you’re making for your children, it’s easy,” Joli says.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.  And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Coping with Relationship Jealousy

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Coping with Relationship Jealousy
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Jealousy…think your immune to it? Guess again. I treat couples who are jealous of their partner’s relationship with the kids, with the dog, and with their career. It’s an emotion that we can identify in babies as young as 6 months, but we don’t talk about it enough. What is jealousy versus envy? How we can foster a healthier relationship with jealousy so that we can use it to learn about ourselves and develop a stronger connection with our partners? Jealousy expert, Dr. Joli Hamilton, who gave a TED talk all about jealousy, is going to help us make sense of this very complex emotion. Joli is also a research psychologist, professor of human sexuality, and a sex & relationship coach. Let’s dive in.This episode is sponsored by FirmTech. If you're a penis owner, then you need to know about FirmTech. FirmTech has rings designed to increase sexual stamina and give you stronger, longer-lasting erections. Their high-tech ring gives you the added benefit of providing health data based on the quality of your erections. We have devices to measure the quality of our sleep and how many calories we burn, so why shouldn't we have a med-tech device to measure the health of our erections? Well, now we do. Visit myfirmtech.com and use code IKNOWEMILY for 20% off your purchase. Thanks to FirmTech for sponsoring this episode. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Get Real Approach to Dating

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Get Real Approach to Dating
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Are you one of the millions who feel like you’re blinding navigating the dating world? Whether you’re swiping through profiles on an app or scanning the room at a bar, there are some tried and true dating principles that can help. Today’s guest, Dr. Susan Campbell, has written several books on this topic and has personal experience as someone who’s stepped back into the dating world a few times throughout her life. Today she’s going to explain how her “get real” approach to dating can help you stay confident and more easily connect with potential partners. I had her on the show before to chat about the five relationship stages and loved our conversation so much that I had to invite her back on.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Narcissism and Your Relationships

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Narcissism and Your Relationships
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Have you ever wondered if you might be in a relationship with a narcissist? Narcissism comes in many forms. Some obvious, others....not so obvious. Being in a relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies can be emotionally draining and deplete your self-esteem, but hope is available. Today, I chat with relationship expert Joe Kort on how to recognize the signs and develop an exit strategy if that’s what you think you need. We also chat about what it means to come from a narcissistic family and shed light on lesser-known components of narcissism such as “narcissistic injuries” and “narcissistic defenses.”If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

The Couple’s Journey: 5 Relationship Stages

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The Couple’s Journey: 5 Relationship Stages
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If you’re in a long-term relationship, chances are you can look back and identify when the relationship shifted from the bliss of the honeymoon phase to the reality of the everyday life together. You can probably think of times when you’ve really struggled to balance each other’s needs versus times when you dreamt of shared future goals. Did you know there are actually 5 distinct stages in every relationship and that couples can cycle in and out of each stage multiple times? Knowing what stage you’re in can help avoid breakups and more easily navigate typical relationship challenges. That’s what I’m discussing with my guest today, Dr. Susan Campbell.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q & A: I cry after sex!

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Q & A: I cry after sex!
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Have you ever been having a perfectly enjoyable sexual experience only to find yourself uncontrollably sobbing afterward? There are lots of reasons why someone might cry after sex, but most of the time, it’s because of something called post-coital dysphoria. And it’s more common than you might think. Studies have found that nearly half of all women experience this at some point in their lives. We’ll talk all about this condition and I’ll also give tips on how to handle it if this happens to your partner during sex.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Erotic Orientation

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Erotic Orientation
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If you’re a regular listener of the podcast, you probably know the difference between gender identity (whether you identify as male, female, or nonbinary) and sexual orientation (straight, gay, or somewhere in between). But how much do you know about erotic orientation? Simply put, erotic orientation describes the kinds of things that turn us on. Interestingly, however, erotic orientation doesn’t always line up with commonly held assumptions about gender identity and sexual orientation. For instance, some straight men enjoy sex with other men. Some lesbian women get turned on by heterosexual porn. Confused? Don’t worry. Today’s guest, Dr. Joe Kort, is here to break it all down. An expert on gender identity, sexual orientation, and erotic orientation, he’ll help make sense of the complexities of sexual behavior. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q&A: Does His Fantasy Mean He Doesn’t Love Me?

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Q&A: Does His Fantasy Mean He Doesn’t Love Me?
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I am so excited about today’s episode because it is our first ever live Q&A! I finally had a subscriber brave enough to schedule some time with me so that we could dive more deeply into her concern. Her longtime boyfriend has a sexual fantasy that is making them question if their relationship is really on solid ground. The worst part is, that she feels partly responsible for the fantasy he’s stuck on. Have you ever questioned the meaning of your sexual fantasies? Has your partner ever reacted negatively when you expressed a fantasy or desire? Then you need to tune into today’s episode! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud and want to tell us who you are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Tantra for the Everyday Lover

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Tantra for the Everyday Lover
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If you’re like most folks, you’ve probably heard of tantric sex. And while you might be curious about it, you probably can’t imagine ever practicing it with your partner. I mean who has time for that, right…? Think again, my friend. My guest today is going to shed some light on how the everyday couple can incorporate tantric principles into their sex life in a way that deepens intimacy, expands meaning, and enhances emotional and physical pleasure. Good intention, and open heart, and strategic breathing are really all you need to practice tantric sex. Listen today, you’ll thank me later. Dr. Sally Valentine is a psychotherapist, sex therapist supervisor, who is certified in sex therapy, hypnotherapy, EMDR, and Imago relationship therapy. She has been practicing for over 20 years in Boca Raton, FL. Dr. Valentine creatively teaches Tantra to her clients, couples, and colleagues to enhance their connection, self-awareness, intimacy, sexual competency and to overcome sexual wounds. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q & A: How Long Does She Really Want You to Last?

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Q & A: How Long Does She Really Want You to Last?
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We have so many great questions to dive into today! I answer one man’s question about how to improve ejaculatory control (0:57), another man’s question is about whether he should tell his wife that he’s interested in having sex with other men (13:03), and another listener’s question about what it means that his partner never initiates sex (18:14). Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Sexually Woke: Secrets to Great Sex for a Lifetime

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Sexually Woke: Secrets to Great Sex for a Lifetime
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“I could go the rest of my life without it.” That’s how countless women feel about sex after going through menopause. Today’s guest, Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith, was no different. Despite the fact that this is a common feeling, it’s not one that most women feel at peace with, and it lends itself to some pretty frustrated partners. The fact is, if sex was important to you before menopause, there is no reason why you can’t continue to enjoy it after menopause. That’s the topic of today’s episode. My guest, Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith is a Board-Certified Gynecologist specializing in women's midlife wellness, hormone optimization, and sexual wellness. She is the founder of Complete Midlife Wellness Center in Houston, TX, and the best-selling author of "Sexually Woke- Awaken the Secrets to Your Best Sex Life in Midlife and Beyond," which she wrote after waking up to the realization she didn’t want to live the rest of her life without a vibrant sex life. She conducted a study on thousands of women to discover what the secrets were among those who maintained a hot sex life even later in life.You can learn more about Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith on her website and her Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Youtube, and LinkedIn.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.EMJOY is an app for women who want to learn how to have consistent orgasms, boost their libido, experience body acceptance and high self-esteem, and improve their relationships. Click HERE to claim your 14-day free trial. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshop.

Sex and Cannabis

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Sex and Cannabis
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I thought there would be no better way to 04/20 than by dedicating a whole episode to the exploration of sex and cannabis. The healing properties of cannabis have been known for centuries, but modern medicine has only recognized its use in more recent years. Today, special product lines are being designed that enhance sexual arousal and even treat sexual pain. Today I’m joined by sex educator and medically certified cannabis consultant Chelsea Cebara to outline everything you need to know about how your favorite flower bud can be strategically used to enhance your sex life.Chelsea Cebara has been helping humans effectively and mindfully combine sex and cannabis since 2010 as a professional sex educator, product developer, medically-certified cannabis consultant, and founder of Cebara Consulting. She is proud to have developed the world's first water-based, barrier-compatible THC lubricant, Velvet Swing, and cofounded the Sex & Cannabis Professional Alliance. Ms. Cebara has been featured in publications such as Forbes, Cosmopolitan, and DOPE, was named one of MJ Venture’s “Top 40 under 40” and has been a regularly featured speaker at industry events such as WomenGROW. She lives in Seattle where she advises cannabis businesses at all levels of development and speaks nationally on the intersection of cannabis with sex, kink, and consent culture.You can learn more about Chelsea on her website and her twitter.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremilyEMJOY is an app for women who want to learn how to have consistent orgasms, boost their libido, experience body acceptance and high self-esteem, and improve their relationships. Click HERE to claim your 14-day free trial. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too.  Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Sex on the Spectrum

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Sex on the Spectrum
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Have you ever wondered if you or your partner might fall on the autism spectrum? Do you have autism and struggle to understand how to navigate romantic relationships and sex? Do you have an autistic child and are wondering how to help them navigate their sexuality in a healthy way? Then you need to listen to today’s episode. Autism affects about 2% of the population, and we are beginning to have a clearer understanding of how to help autistic folks have meaningful relationships and sexual experiences if that’s what they desire. Today I sit down with sex counselor, Nicholas Maio-Aether. He brings a unique perspective as a licensed clinician and an autistic adult. Together we chat about all things sex, love, and autism.You can learn more about Nicholas on his website, his instagram, and his facebook.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremilyEMJOY is an app for women who want to learn how to have consistent orgasms, boost their libido, experience body acceptance and high self-esteem, and improve their relationships. Join the hundreds of thousands of women who have already benefited from all that EMJOY has to offer. Click HERE to claim your 14-day free trial. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too.  Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q & A: My Uncircumcised Penis

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Q & A: My Uncircumcised Penis
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It’s Q&A day! We tackle two great questions today. First, I address one man’s concerns about his partners’ negative reaction to his uncircumcised penis (1:17). In the second segment, I give tips to a guy whose wife has struggled to regain libido following cancer treatment (8:18). Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy […]

Holistic Pleasure

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Holistic Pleasure
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Are you curious how to experience pleasure more completely, on both an emotional and physical level? Maybe you’re struggling to understand why emotional intimacy as a prerequisite to sex is so important for your partner. Do you long to feel more present and connected to your partner? Then you need to listen to today’s episode. Today I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, a human sexuality professor at The University of Washington, where she teaches the most popular course in the university’s history. Nicole and I chat all about the role of emotional connection in sexual pleasure. (9:18) We also give our $.02 about how sex scenes are depicted in your favorite Netflix shows (19:25), how to navigate motherhood while staying connected to your sexuality (24:39), and even tell you what monkeys and dolphins can teach us about sexual pleasure (31:32).If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. I am also currently accepting upcoming submissions for an upcoming episode about sex on the spectrum. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. Special thanks to EMJOY @letsemjoy for sponsoring this episode. EMJOY's purpose is to normalize female sexual wellbeing as a key part of wider wellbeing and self-care. Click this link to receive your free 14-day trial.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample.

Q & A: The Negative Effects of Poor Sex Education

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Q & A: The Negative Effects of Poor Sex Education
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Thank you so much for tuning in, everybody. Today, I answer two subscriber questions. I give one man tips on how to cope with ED and premature ejaculation with a partner who is unwilling to collaborate with him to improve sex. I answer one woman's question about how to handle her boyfriend's anxiety about having […]

The Birds and the Bees in 2022

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The Birds and the Bees in 2022
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Are you a parent who is dreading the birds and bees talk with your child? Could you use some insight about how kids think about sex in 2022? Want to learn more about why we need to be alarmed by the fact that teens are having less sex than ever before? Then you need to listen to today’s episode.  I’m joined by Dr. Logan Levkoff, an internationally recognized expert on sexuality, parenting, and relationships. In addition to covering these important topics, we also answer subscriber questions (42:00) and share stories about how we taught our own children about sex, including the hilarious things they repeated at school (51:22). If you have a story about the first conversation you and your parents had about sex, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. Special thanks to EMJOY @letsemjoy for sponsoring this episode. EMJOY's purpose is to normalize female sexual wellbeing as a key part of wider wellbeing and self-care. Click this link to receive your free 14-day trial.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample.

Q&A: How do I revive romance after baby?

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Q&A: How do I revive romance after baby?
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It’s Q&A day! Today I answer questions about how to revive the romantic and sexual connection amidst a life with toddlers (1:55), what to do if you’ve fallen into the “roommate stage” with your partner (20:37), and how to get your partner to give and receive more oral sex (13:47).  If you have a question […]

Sex, Love, and ADHD

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Sex, Love, and ADHD
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Are you or your partner one of the many people who find it hard to focus during sex? Have you ever wondered whether you might have ADHD? Do you have ADHD and struggle to maintain healthy relationships and satisfying sexual experiences? Then you need to listen to today’s episode. My guest, Dr. Stephanie Buehler, and I take a deep dive into the effect of ADHD on sex and love. ADHD can have a lot of symptoms and can present differently in different people. Whether you have a formal diagnosis or not, you will learn tips that will help improve your relationship, keep you focused, experience pleasure, and deepen intimacy. Let’s get started.To learn more about Dr. Buehler, you can visit her website learnsextherapy.com. You can also find her on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn.By the way, if you have a story about how ADHD has affected the way you experience pleasure, I want to hear about it! As much as we learn from other experts, nothing makes us feel more connected than hearing from our peers. Visit loveandlibido.com to share your story. I’ll compile them and air them on an upcoming episode. Also, if you have a general sex or relationship question, you can submit that too, by visiting loveandlibido.com. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.If you’re ever interested in learning more, you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, or YouTube.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample.

Q & A: I'm in love with my wife's sister!

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Q & A: I'm in love with my wife's sister!
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It’s Q&A Day! Today, I answer questions about what to do if you’re attracted to your spouse’s sibling, how to introduce polyamory into a traditionally monogamous relationship, and how to cope with a small penis and rapid ejaculation.If you have a question that you would like to have answered on the show, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your question like these folks did or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You’ll have the opportunity to share your story as it relates to the topic of one of our episodes. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample.

Sex & Islam

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Sex & Islam
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Have you ever struggled to reconcile how your faith affects the way you feel about your sexuality? You’re not alone. This is the third of a three-part mini-series on sex and faith. While faith isn’t the focus of this whole podcast, it is something that impacts the way so many people feel about their sexuality, […]

Sex & Christianity

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Sex & Christianity
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Does sex ever make you feel a little guilty? Were you or your partner raised in a home, culture, or religious institution that instilled a sense of shame about expressing yourself sexually? Then you need to listen to this and the next two episodes. I thought I’d open season 2 with a bang by doing […]

Sex & Judaism

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Sex & Judaism
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Have you ever considered how your upbringing affected the way you feel about your sexuality? If you were brought up in a religious community, there is a good chance you received some pretty specific messages about sex. This is the second episode of a three-part mini-series on sex and faith. While faith isn’t the focus […]

The Best of Season 1

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The Best of Season 1
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2021 has been an interesting year. I started my podcast in the latter half of it, and it has been a wonderful experience. I've spoken with over a dozen brilliant experts during this season that helped me shine some light on conversations that needed to be had. We covered everything from the 237 reasons women […]

Tonight's Menu...Really Healthy Sex

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Tonight's Menu...Really Healthy Sex
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Are you interested in boosting libido and improving sexual function without relying on medication? Sexuality is complex and while there are usually lots of contributing factors, sometimes simple diet and lifestyle changes can make a big difference. Today, my guest, Christine DeLozier, and I are going to talk about what staples you should include in […]

Clitoris Confidential: One Woman's Botched Labiaplasty and What We All Need to Know

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Clitoris Confidential: One Woman's Botched Labiaplasty and What We All Need to Know
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Do you or your partner worry about the appearance of the vulva? It's not just penis owners who may have insecurity about the size or appearance of the genitalia. Aesthetic surgeries designed to change the appearance of the vulva, specifically labiaplasties, are fast-growing and widely advertised, but there is no board-certified standardization for the procedure. Today I chat with Jessica Pin (recently featured on the Daily Show), who, after having a negative outcome from a botched labiaplasty, became the leading crusader for equitable coverage of the clitoris in medical literature and curricula. Jessica shares her story and her passion for changing this systemic issue. Find her on Instagram @Jessica_Ann_Pin and on Twitter @MediClit.Find me on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok @dremilyjamea, and Subscribe to Sex and Love so that you never miss an episode! Be sure to give me a 5 star review and share with a friend who might find it interesting! 

Sex Help Made Easy

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Sex Help Made Easy
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Did you know that one component of sex therapy training involves watching porn of every variety in a group with our sex therapist peers? Yep. Today, I chat with Dr. Patti Britton who led more than 55 of these (very memorable) trainings. Dr. Britton also sheds light on the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching. There is an option for people who want help without having to get too emotional. Dr. Patti is a world-renowned clinical sexologist and founded the profession of sex coaching in 1993. Learn more about her work and her books at drpattibritton.com.Find Dr. Emily Jamea @dremilyjamea on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok, and Subscribe to Sex and Love today!

Polyamory: Busting Myths & Initiating the Conversation

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Polyamory: Busting Myths & Initiating the Conversation
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Have you ever wondered about polyamorous relationships? Struggling to find the right way to discuss it with your partner? This week, Emily interviews Martha Kauppi of the Institute for Relational Intimacy about consensual nonmonogamy. Martha is a marriage and family therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist. Her studies over the years have debunked myths about polyamory and helped guide many couples and therapists towards a more comprehensive, positive, and healthy perspective on often-misunderstood relationships. Find her work and her book at marthakauppi.com.

What Makes a Sex Offender and Can They be Rehabilitated?

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What Makes a Sex Offender and Can They be Rehabilitated?
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In this episode of Sex and Love, I speak with Miranda Galbreath, a Licensed Professional Counselor with master’s degrees in Forensic Psychology and Clinical Mental Health Counseling.  She has worked in the helping professions for over 20 years with a focus specifically on issues of sexual safety for the last 17 years. We speak about […]

The Surprising Truth about Amsterdam's Red Light District

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The Surprising Truth about Amsterdam's Red Light District
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In this episode of Sex + Love I chat with Eveline Stallaart, a leading sexologist, psychologist and licenced therapist based in Amsterdam. We discuss the different cultural approaches to sexuality between Holland and the US, the most common issues she treats, and Amsterdam's famous Red Light district. Eveline is the featured expert on the Dutch […]

Sex and Love: Sizzling Sex for Life

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Sex and Love: Sizzling Sex for Life
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Does good sex end after the honeymoon phase? Find out in my interview with Michael Castleman, M.A. recognized as ‘one of the nation’s top health writers.’ Over his 46 year career, he has published 18 books and written over 2000 articles for Psychology Today, WebMD, Playboy, Men’s Health, Smithsonian, and the New York Times. We […]

Sex and Love: Portugal

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Sex and Love: Portugal
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  Have you ever wondered how sex and love is experienced across the Atlantic on the Iberian peninsula? Tune in to today’s episode where I interview Portuguese sexologist and researcher, Dr. Rui Costa. Together we’ll learn why Portugal leads Europe as the country with the highest rates of divorce, why it was voted the most […]

Sex and Love: Fantasies

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Sex and Love: Fantasies
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Bondage, multiple partners, role play, Batman… All of this and more in today’s episode where I chat with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life" to learn more about the most common sexual fantasies, the reasons behind […]

Sex and Love: Belarus

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Sex and Love: Belarus
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Did you know that Belarus is the sex tourism capital of Europe? Or that you could get prison time for sending nude photos there? Tune into today’s episode where I sit down with women’s sexual health app developer, Yana Belenkaya, and psychologist and sexologist, Zoya Prishivalka, to find out more about these topics as well […]

Sex and Love: Rekindling Desire

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Sex and Love: Rekindling Desire
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Do you struggle to maintain desire in your relationship? Does one of you want sex more often than the other? Watch my interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy, my colleague, mentor, and author of 12 books and dozens of articles as we tackle all of these questions. 

2. Sex and Love in Nigeria

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2. Sex and Love in Nigeria
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A rising feminist movement plus herbs and potions that enhance sexual pleasure! Tune into today’s episode where I sit down with Yeside Olinkaya- Agbola, a Lagos based sexual health educator, to find out more on these topics in relation to Sex and Love in Nigeria.

1. Sex and Love: Why Women Have Sex

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1. Sex and Love: Why Women Have Sex
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What motivates women to have sex? Well it turns out there are 237 distinct reasons! Tune into today’s episode where I chat with world-renowned clinical psychologist, sex researcher, author and professor, Dr. Cindy Meston, who was also my first ever Human Sexuality professor when I attended the University of Texas. In this episode we chat […]

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